I am an adult, for all intents and purposes. Legally, I’m considered an adult by age alone. I can fight for our country if I want to. I can drink. I make responsible financial decisions and I’m responsible for the life of another being. People depend on me for things.
But I’m also still really into having fun. Fiancé and I play videogames and board games. I read children’s books and young adult books and sci-fi and all sorts of stuff like that. I buy nerdy t-shirts and think cartoons are great.
Basically, I still indulge in what some would call “childish” things. In fact, I don’t just indulge in these things, but I’m openly enthusiastic about them. These are not closet hobbies. These are part of my character.
And whenever these things come up around certain people, I get these… looks. Sometimes they are looks that say, “You’re such an adorable human being for your childish ways,” and sometimes they say, “Okay, but seriously. When is this going to stop? When are you going to grow up already?”
And the answer to that second one is this: I already have and I constantly am.
My childlike (there is a difference, by the way, between “childish” and “childlike” and I prefer the latter) ways are things that I don’t want to lose. They are the qualities that I like best about myself.
And even if you think I am just a kid in an adult’s body, what is so wrong with taking a page out of their book? Kids are happy (for the most part) and they’re honest. Kids are open to new ideas and they are imaginative. Kids have fun. Who ever decided that we ought to stop doing that just because a few years have passed?
So yeah, I’m growing up, but I’m still making life a fun game for myself. Cleaning the house? It’s a game. I earn points. Paying taxes? My friends and I get together for a tax party and get through it as a group with fun music and alcohol (which is not for children). Voting? If we are able, We make it a group event and we celebrate afterwards.
Because life should be fun, no matter how old you are. Fun shouldn’t be a special occasion, it should be a constant priority, and advancing in age shouldn’t mean decreasing the amount of fun you have. In fact, it should be quite the opposite. Your job should be fun. Your friends should be fun. Your relationships should be fun.
And you know what? You’re an adult. You get to decide whatever you want to do with your life, right? So why wouldn’t you choose fun?